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The Jersey Connection Part II

Linda Swinburne

I want to tell you a bit about Lily’s family. The Thatchers. And to finish Lily’s story. But first a cemetery.

My family research has generally revealed poverty. My forebears lived in dirty, damp conditions, engaged in hard, manual work. Generally living hand to mouth, day by day. When they died, they were buried in unmarked, public graves. No headstone. No memorial. After 50 years or so, the land in which they were buried, reverted to public ownership and someone else was buried there.

Rarely have I found a headstone or memorial in existence.

But not the Thatchers. There is a family plot in Mont à l’Abbé cemetery in St Helier in Jersey for all of them. And headstones. All of them together. With marked graves. It is simply a family historian’s joy to find such things (Reader – wrong word to use about death I appreciate but you know what I mean I’m sure …)

Mont a l’Abbé cemetery is in two parts. The first was opened in 1855 (known as the Old Cemetery) with the “New” part being added in 1881. It is a vast and very peaceful place which is high up and overlooking the sea in St Helier. Plots are divided into four (north and south 1 and 2). The Thatcher family has one whole plot.

Ida Thatcher was the first to be buried there in one of the graves on what is actually the East side of the plot (despite them being described as north and south) side of the plot. As I said in Part I, Ida died aged 14 in 1899 from Meningitis.

Also on this side is John Charles Thatcher, Lily’s father (and Ida’s of course) who died in 1922. Next Jane Ann Lawrens (sometimes spelt Laurens as you can see) , their mother and John’s wife, in 1924. And here they are.

You will see too, that there are two other burials on this side of the plot. Charles John Thatcher and Emily Kate Smith.

Charles John Thatcher (1883-1929)

Charles John Thatcher (1883-1929) was the Thatchers first born child and Lily’s eldest brother. Charles joined the Royal Marines in 1900 when he was only 17 (he gives his age as 18). Charles signed up in Portsmouth to the Royal Marines Light Infantry (RMLI) and went on to have a long and distinguished career of military service which ended after 22 years (and of course spans World War I) when he was “retired” in 1922. Charles achieved the rank of Regimental Sergeant Major and was awarded the Victoria Cross, the Distinguished Service Medal and Distinguished Service Cross in 1918. In addition, Charles’s record confirms the award of the Meritorious Service Medal which was given to senior non commissioned officers for long and/or distinguished military service. 

This is a magnified copy of the inscription on Charles’s gravestone where it attributes his death to wounds received in the battle of Zeebrugge in WW1.

The Zeebrugge battle was fought in April 1918 when the British Navy attempted to stop German ships and U-boats from using Zeebrugge as a base from which to launch a raid on England.  It was led by the 4th Battalion Royal Marines and the warships HMS Vindictive and Invincible.  Charles’s record indicates he served on Vindictive in 1912 but in this campaign he was apparently on the Invincible.

If you’d like to know more about the Zeebrugge raid, this link will take you to a full account  https://www.cwgc.org/our-work/blog/the-zeebrugge-raid-at-105-the-trials-tragedy-of-a-daring-amphibious-assault/

Charles was mentioned in despatches as follows “ Sergt.-Maj. Charles John Thatcher, R.M.L.I. was mainly instrumental in conveying the heavy scaling ladders from the ship [Invincible] to the Mole [The Zeebrugge mole was a mile-long seawall jutting out into the North Sea upon which several German sea-facing artillery guns were placed and had to be taken out for the plan to be a success. It was also studded with concrete machine gun posts] and throughout the operation displayed great coolness and devotion to duty” for which he was awarded the Distinguished Service Cross. I cannot find mention of Charles amongst the injured but when he died 11 years later several regional newspapers reported his death as a “Hero of Zeebrugge” and all the reports mention that Charles was severely wounded and gassed. 

Charles was awarded the Victoria Cross for “Operations Against Zeebrugge and Ostend on the night of 22nd to 23rd April 1918” according to his Military Record and a report in the London Gazette in July that year.

Charles died in March 1929, aged 46. His Death Certificate says he died from Pulmonary Tuberculosis and Asthenia (generalised weakness or lack of strength). Charles’s family had inscribed on his gravestone that he died “from effects of wounds received at Zeebrugge”. Whether, in fact, cause and effect were ever established though is not clear.

However Charles does not have a Commonwealth War Grave. The Commonwealth War Graves Commission (CWGC) is very thorough in this respect and will ensure service personnel have a CWG memorial stone even if they died long after wounds or injuries received in conflicts if their death can be directly attributed to them, so it would be easy to conclude that this inscription is not necessarily accurate.

So I wrote to the CWCG. I explained what I had discovered and whilst I have not been successful at establishing either the veracity of the view that Charles died as a result of effect of his being gassed in WW1, nor of getting a CWG memorial for him, I did receive this rather lovely reply to my enquiry.

Unfortunately the Commission’s remit is limited to those who died within our qualifying date period for both the First and the Second World War. Rather than being an arbitrary date, 31 August 1921 is when the Act of Parliament was passed which formally brought the First World War to a conclusion, hence is used to define those who died during the war years.

I’m afraid that as this individual died in 1929, so after August 1921, he therefore falls outside of our Royal Charter responsibilities. There is no provision for us to make exceptions, even in cases where there is evidence that a post-1921 death was attributable to wartime service. Sadly many men died in the years immediately following the war and in the subsequent decades – some but not all will have been either directly or indirectly a consequence of wartime military service.  

Whilst understanding that this outcome may represent a disappointment, equally, we hope you can understand the need to apply our Eligibility Criteria consistently. That this individual is not considered a Commonwealth war casualty within the remit of the Commission in no way diminishes the sacrifices made, nor the tragedy that his family had to cope with. We’re glad that through your efforts, Sgt Major Thatcher continues to be remembered.

The final commemoration on this side of the Thatcher plot is that of Emily Kate Smith (1890-1940). Emily was Charles Thatcher’s wife and they were married in September 1918 at the Royal Marines’ Barracks in Alverstoke in Hampshire by the Royal Marines’ Military Chaplain.

Charles John Thatcher and Emily Kate Smith on their wedding day in 1918

Emily was born in Crawley in West Sussex in 1890. When she and Charles married in 1918, Emily gives her address as Cowes on the Isle of Wight. In 1921 they are living in Military Barracks in Gosport in Hampshire. Lily, Charles’s sister, was one of the Witnesses.

Emily was the sole recipient of her husband’s estate when he died at which time they were both living on Jersey. They had no children. Emily died in 1940 aged just 50 from Colon Cancer.

Emily’s Will is curious. Emily leaves her entire estate to an Alison Eleanor Coffin who was only 13 when Emily died. The Will notes that Alison is the daughter of a René Armand Coffin to whom the estate would have gone if Alison were to be deceased when Emily died. Emily’s Will was made just 6 months before she died.

So now I’m curious about the Coffin family of Jersey. I want to know what René and his daughter’s connection was to Emily Smith and why she chose to leave her entire estate to this child. That’s how genealogists get distracted …

Reuben Lawrence Thatcher (1887-1969) was Lily’s younger brother; only two years separated them. Reuben never married. Reuben worked in his Father’s painting and decorating business and from trade records over the years, I could deduce that he took over management of the business after his Father died.

Reuben served in WW1 in both the Royal Defence Corps and the Honourable Artillery Company. Reuben was discharged from the Army in 1918 after being gassed.

Reuben receives half of his Mother’s house in 1924 when Jane Lawrens died (Lily having received the other half). Reuben also receives various bequests of furniture and ornaments from Jane.

Reuben was living on Jersey during WW2 and thus also had a Registration card like Lily and Thomas.

Reuben Lawrens Thatcher WW2 Registration Card

Have you ever seen a happier face being presented to a hostile, occupying military force?

Like Lily, Reuben loved to travel and during the 1950s can be found on various ships’ passenger lists to and from the UK going to Buenos Aires, Canada, and extensively in the Far East including Yokohama in Japan.

Reuben died in 1968 aged 81. His Will is comprehensive.  Probate records show his estate as being worth £42k (worth about £624k now). I think where he died (The Limes, Green St., St Helier) was a nursing and residential care facility for older people.

Reuben’s burial record shows his funeral was held at St Helier Parish Church on Thursday 2 January 1969.  Reuben was cremated and his ashes are buried at Mont-a-l’Abbé cemetery in the Thatcher family plot and commemorated on the same stone as Lily, his sister and Thomas her husband.

Reuben left the individual bequests of between £100 and £250 each to Charity and good causes with some personal bequests to individuals. These are detailed on his Will as follows

  • Jersey Blind Society
  • Brig-y-Don Children’s Convalescent Holiday Home, Jersey
  • Jersey Masonic Temple
  • Eunice Callas de Caen wife of Francis de Boutillier of Highfields, St Ouen, Jersey
  • Christopher Le Boutillier grandson of Francis Le Boutillier
  • John Wilcox son of John T.A. Willcox
  • Jane Wilcox, daughter of John T.A. Wilcox
  • Mary Wilcox
  • Sarah Wilcox

– The last four above named to receive all Reuben’s books, prints and pictures

  • Richard Loughlin, Head Steward the United Club, St Helier, Jersey
  • Philip Edgar Le Couteur, 6, Rouge Bouillon, Jersey
  • Walter F Thatcher, The Follies, Pontiac Common, Jersey [presumably a paternal relative]
  • Fred Percy Tastevin, Avenue House, West Park, Jersey
  • Remainder to Lily, his sister

Should Lily have predeceased him (she didn’t) there were further instructions about how her share should also be divided between charities.

So this is a further bequest that went to Lily in addition to the one from her mother and from her husband.

And finally to finish Lily Mabel Thatcher’s story.

In Part I, we left Lily just after her husband, Thomas, died in 1948. After Thomas’s death, I have found Lily once again on various ships’ passenger lists travelling around the world during the 1950s.

Lily died in 1976 aged 89. She is the last of John and Jane’s family. Lily’s estate was worth over £1m at the value of today’s currency. While that itself is quite staggering, it is the breadth and extent of the distribution of her estate which is extraordinary.

Lily appointed the Midland Bank as her Executor and her entire estate is divided up between individuals and charitable causes.

This is a distilled, version of Lily’s Last Will and Testament.

Lily begins by specifically stating that she wishes to be buried in “her grave” at the New St John’s Cemetery at  Mont-à-l’Abbé with her husband, Thomas Knight Ball (which she is).  They are both in Block V Plot 15 on the opposite side of the family put from her parents and elder brother. The gravestone also includes a memorial to Lily’s younger brother Reuben who was cremated and his ashes scatted on Plot 15.

The Thatcher Plot at Mont a’l’Abbé – Lily Mabel Thatcher, Thomas Knight Ball and a memorial to Reuben Lawrens Thatcher

Lily asks for her body to be repatriated to Jersey should she die elsewhere and she specifically instructs that she must be buried wearing her wedding ring.

Lily also leaves money in trust for her parents’ graves and hers and Thomas’s graves to be upkept in perpetuity.  

  • To Mr and Mrs John Tooke-Kirby of Goring on Sea the sum of £20,000
  • To her godchild David Tooke-Kirby £10,000 when he reaches 31
  • a Mrs Iris Laurens of “Iona” Greve d’Anette, St Clement, Jersey [a maternal relative on her mother’s side] £10,000 plus all Lily’s jewellery (specifically including “her five stone engagement ring and her solitaire diamond ring) and clothing with the exception of her gold bangle (see below)
  • Miss Gladys Marett of Overseas Flats, Dicq Road, St Saviour, Jersey £3,000
  • Mr and Mrs George Falle of 6, Beach Crescent, St Clement, Jersey [Lily’s mother Jane Laurens had a sister who married a man called Falle so presumably this was a maternal relative] £3,000
  • a Mr and Mrs Harborow of “Larmona” 65 Cleveland Gardens, Golders Green, London, NW2 £3,000 plus to Margaret Harborow, Lily’s gold bangle presented upon her retirement from Lloyds Bank, Lombard Street
  • Mr and Mrs Stanley P Le Ruez of “Freshwinds”, Bon Air Lane, St Saviour, Jersey £3,000
  • Miss Amy Le Cornu of “Hengistbury” Claremont Road, St  Saviour, Jersey £1,000
  • Mrs R Le Templier of 8, Cleveland Avenue, St Helier [the address where Lily died] £1,000
  • Mrs Gwen Talbot c/o Mrs Templier above £500
  • Dr and Mrs Norman Pitts of Red One Montauk Avenue, Stonington, Connecticut 06378, USA £2,000
  • Dr Barnardo’s Homes £4,000
  • the Jersey Blind Society c/o La Motte Chambers, St Helier, Jersey £5,000
  • St Dunstan’s (the organisation for men and women blinded in war service) £7,000
  • Brig-y-Don Children’s Convalescent and Holiday Home, Samares, St Clement, Jersey (to which her brother, Reuben had also left a bequest) £5,000
  • Cancer Research £7,000
  • Invalid Children’s Aid Association £7,000
  • The Home for Aged and Infirm Women known as “Glanville”, St Mark’s Road, Jersey “for providing amenities for the patient’s use” [probably means Lily was in there at some point] £7,000

Finally, Lily says any residue should go to the Jersey General Hospital in memory of her parents and her late brother, Reuben for the purpose of building a home, hostel or homes for old people in need to be called the “Knight Ball and Thatcher Home” or to extend the Jersey hospital with a ward or annexe to be known as the “Knight Ball and Thatcher Ward”. I have visited the hospital and no such ward exists.  Nor could I find a facility for elderly people of the same name. so what happened to that bequest is a bit of a mystery.

What a woman. Lily did such a lot of good with her bequests. I have visited the Thatcher family plot and shown you above a photo of the graves on the East side. Unfortunately, it is the Western side that gets very degraded by the weather and because of this, the gravestone is very, very hard to read. But I could make out some of the writing and it is clear enough that Lily and Thomas are buried there and there is specific mention of the stone also being a memorial for Lily’s brother, Reuben.

Close up of Lily, Thomas and Reuben’s memorial

So there they all are. The Thatchers. Lily was the last of them. Not my relatives but nonetheless incredibly interesting I think (I hope you do too).

I hope you’ve enjoyed reading this and thank you for visiting my site.

The Jersey Connection Part 1

Linda Swinburne

You never know where family history will take you do you? I certainly never thought mine would take me to the Channel Island of Jersey and a tale of second marriages, an heiress and German War Records. But it has.

To put you in the picture. I got interested in one of my (it has to be said fairly distant) relatives when I found him heading to Australia to emigrate with his first wife when they were in their 60s. Seemed unusual. So I did a bit of digging. As you do …

Thomas Knight Ball (1858 – 1948) and I have a very distant connection. One of my paternal 4xGreat Grandfathers was Thomas Knight Ball’s 2x Great Grandfather. That makes him my 2nd cousin 3 times removed. I said it was distant … stick with me.

Thomas was born in Euston Square in the North West of central London to parents Thomas Oram Ball and Jane Knight in June 1858. His middle name follows the naming convention that the Victorians rather liked of giving children (particularly the eldest one which Thomas was) the mother’s family name as the child’s middle name (and very glad modern day family historians are for this given it often helps find and validate birth and other records).

Thomas’s father worked on the railways and the family always lived near a mainline station in central London (St Pancras, Cannon Street and in 1858, Euston) to the north of the river Thames. In Victorian times, railway building and expansion was key to make travel more accessible to everyone and the railway companies were major employers.

Thomas’s childhood appears to have been unremarkable and by the time of the 1881 census, when he was 23, Thomas is working as a Grocer’s Assistant in Old Bond Street, Westminster when he lived in a Boarding House for the grocer’s shop staff.

Thomas married Emma Auber at Falkland Road Wesleyan Methodist Chapel in St Pancras, London in 1882. They were both 24. Both living in Kentish Town. Thomas now gives his occupation as a Clerk.

Thomas and Emma continued to live in London until the 1901 census when they have moved to Brighton in East Sussex. But by 1911 at the time of the next census, they are back living in London. This time across the Thames in Brixton in the South West of the city. They have no children and are both 52.

13 years later, in September 1924, Thomas and Emma set off on the SS Ballarat bound for Melbourne, Australia. The passenger list says Australia is their “Future Permanent Address”. Just one year later however, they return to England stating that Kinninghall Road in Clapton, East London is to be their permanent residence. Thomas is described as a Farmer. Did they try their hand at farming in Australia I wonder and it didn’t work out? Did they get homesick? Or perhaps Emma was unwell and they wanted to come home. Sadly, Emma died from a heart condition a couple of years later. By this time though, they were back living in Sussex; this time in Worthing.

But it is after Emma died that Thomas’s life really gets interesting.

So having upped and gone to chance a new life in Australia at the age of 65 and returned less than a year after he sailed there with Emma, and following Emma’s death, Thomas seems to embark on a new life.  Much travelling, some with his brother, Francis, and then on to a new marriage to a woman much younger than him. Sigh. It was ever thus. But read on …

Less than three months after Emma has died, Thomas can be found coming back from Durban in South Africa on the same ship (the SS Edinburgh Castle) as his younger brother Francis. By this time, Thomas was 68 and Francis, 65. They embarked at Natal and disembarked at Southampton. Both give addresses in Worthing as their proposed permanent residence. They travelled in 3rd Class. 

Then, four months later, Thomas and Francis are shown on a passenger manifest coming back from Montréal, Quebec in Canada.  They embarked in Quebec and disembarked in Liverpool on the SS Doric.  They travelled in what is described as a “Tourist Cabin”.  Thomas is 69 by now.

Then at the end of 1927, Thomas remarries. He is 69 and described as a Widower. Lily Mabel Thatcher, Thomas’s new wife, is 38 and a Spinster.  She comes from Jersey in the Channel Islands.

Now, I can hear the wheels turning in your head. Young woman. Older man (31 years older to be clear …). A gold digger for sure. Well, think again, dear reader. Lily is single, comes from Jersey, a place known for its substantial economic wealth and high net worth individuals even in the 1920s and 1930s. Thomas has come from very ordinary stock and is travelling the World in Steerage. Who is digging gold you may wonder.

Lily Mabel Thatcher (1889-1977)

Lily is intriguing. A bit of an enigma. I wish I’d known her.

Lily Mabel Thatcher was born on 23 April 1889 in St Helier in the channel Island of Jersey to parents John Charles Thatcher and Jane Ann Lawrens. John was a self made, very successful businessman and owned the island’s biggest painting and decorating company. Jane was from a very old, established Jersey family.

Lily was the youngest of of John and Jane’s four children. Lily had two older brothers, Charles and Reuben and a sister, Ida. Ida died aged 14 in 1899, from Meningitis.

Lily Mabel Thatcher, about 1940

Lily lived at home with her parents and family until at least the 1921 Census taken in June of that year

Lily’s father died in January 1922 and left his entire estate (I suspect a substantial one) to his wife, Jane Lawrens.

In August 1922, aged 33 and unmarried, Lily leaves Jersey and sails from Southampton to Montrèal on the SS Andania. She is travelling with a Mrs Violet Chapman, aged 34 and described as a housewife of St Helier, Jersey and her 4 year old daughter, Pearl.  Lily gives the same address as Mrs Chapman and Pearl in Jersey. The Arrivals Form in Canada says that Lily is single, has £5 on her, is in Canada with Mrs Chapman on holiday and they are both destined for 592, Union Avenue, Montrèal.

On 5 January 1923, Lily comes back from Canada on the SS Minnedosa which departed St John’s, New Brunswick, Canada for Southampton on that date. Lily gives her mother’s address as the one to which she is going to live in St Helier.

I cannot find Mrs Chapman or her daughter on the passenger list but she is to be found coming and going frequently and regularly between the UK and Canada variously to Montreal or St John’s in the years after Lily left and on one passenger list Violet Chapman gives her last country of domicile as Canada. Intriguing but not relevant to our story.

In 1924, Lily’s mother died. Jane Lawrens leaves the house in which she is living jointly to Lily and her younger brother Reuben. Various other items of furniture are left also to Reuben. Jane’s eldest son Charles is the Executor of Jane’s Will and received a tea service (a Japanese tea service to be precise). The remainder of Jane’s estate (the bulk of which was presumably what she was left by her husband two years previously) Jane leaves to Lily.

This is the first in a series of bequests Lily receives from her family.

Then sometime during these years, Lily somehow meets Thomas (I would lay money on it that they met on a ship but I have absolutely no evidence to corroborate this). They marry in 1927 in Worthing where Thomas had lived with his first wife. Both in fact giver their address as the house in which Thomas lived with Emma and where Emma died. The marriage takes place in a Baptist Chapel and the witnesses were Thomas’s brother, Francis and Lily’s younger brother, Reuben. 

During the 1930s there are various records of Thomas and Lily travelling by ship to some fairly exotic destinations. In 1934, they are sailing from Liverpool on the SS Ulysses bound for what seems to be a cruise that goes via Marseilles, Port Said, Colombo, Penang, Singapore, Java, “Australian Ports” and returns to the UK via South Africa before docking finally in London. Both give their address as Jersey in the Channel Islands.  Thomas is 75 and Lily 45. There is a record of them coming back from Indonesia on the Ulysses in January 1935, presumably the same trip.

On the passenger manifest, Thomas and Lily give their address in Jersey as a house called “Karersee” in Samares, one of the twelve Parishes of Jersey, located on the South East coast.

I have been to look at the house. It is a fairly unremarkable but substantial house near to the main coastal road. I imagine the house has been updated since the 1930s but it is still interesting to see it I think

“Karersee”, Samares, Jersey, CI Home of Thomas and Lily

The only reference I can find to the name Karersee is Lago di Carezza in the Italian South Tyrol in a place called Trentino which an autonomous province in the north east of Italy. In German it is known as Lake Karersee. In English, the Rainbow Lake. It looks beautiful. I’d like to think someone name this lovely house on Jersey after that lake. I’d also like to think it was Lily and Thomas ❤️ …

The Channel Islands are a self-governing parliamentary democracy under the constitutional Monarchy of the Crown of Great Britain. The Channel Islands are not part of the United Kingdom but are known as one of the “British Islands”. They have their own financial, legal and judicial systems and the right to self determination. As such the islands are reigned over by the British Monarch, currently King Charles III. There is a Lieutenant Governor resident on Jersey who acts as a link to the Monarch but the Channel Islands are entirely self governing.

On 1 July 1940 the islands were the first and only part of Great Britain to be invaded and occupied by the German forces during the Second World War. The occupation lasted almost 5 years until 9 May 1945 when the Germans surrendered and the islands were liberated.

This occupation has led to the Channel Islands having very different records during this time from other parts of Great Britain and the United Kingdom. Primary of these (and of most use to family historians) is the identity cards all citizens were required to have by the occupying Forces.

The Jersey Archives have digitised these records and a lot of others created because of the very difficult circumstances in which the island found itself in 1940-45.

Each identity card had personal details of the Channel Islands’ citizen plus (in most cases) an up to date photo. This is Lily’s (I do love the way she has included the addition of her fur stole just thrown over her shoulder and don’t you think her eyes just look super defiant behind those glasses?).

This is the form that was completed for Lily in order to have her card issued. She had “brown hair with some white” she says and brown eyes. The eagle eyed amongst you will notice that her date of birth is slightly different from the one I’ve used from her birth and baptism record but these were difficult times and which of us could say we could remember our birthday when faced with an invading army?

Thomas’s registration card has no photograph (it says he is exempt from giving a photo but I can’t read why). I’ve included below his registration form and card.

Thomas says he has grey hair and grey eyes. At the time of the occupation of the Channel Islands, Thomas was 82 and Lily was 51. Not the final years of their relationship they would have chosen I imagine.

Three years after WW2 ended, Thomas died on 16 February 1948 aged 89.

Thomas had made his Will 16 years earlier, in 1932. Thomas leaves everything to his wife, Lily with the caveat that, should she predecease him, everything is to go to her brother, Reuben. Thomas makes it clear in his Will that has “abandoned” his domicile of origin and intends to live the rest of his life in Jersey.

Whilst I don’t doubt that Thomas’s estate was inferior to Lily’s there was presumably some residual benefit that Lily received.

Birth, marriage and death events are recorded differently in Jersey from the remainder of Great Britain. I have validated Thomas’s death from his funeral and burial records. In Jersey, records of burials and cremations are far more detailed and extensive and as such contain a lot of useful information. so while I don’t know what Thomas died from, I do know that his funeral was carried out at St Luke’s Church by the Reverend Pawson (who charged £10 for his services) and that the funeral cost 40 pounds 3 shillings and 6 pence (younger readers please look this ancient form of currency up here https://www.royalmintmuseum.org.uk/learning/learning-zone/going-decimal/old-money/) and the Funeral Director’s bill was settled in March 1948 by Lily. Exactly where the Church is is obscured by an annoying ink blob on the original record , but to this day there is a St Luke’s Church in St Saviour’s Parish which borders St Clement’s Parish and is just to its north so I’m going for that one.

The Jersey Archives’ Burial Records give me Thomas’s exact date of death and his place of burial. Thomas died on 16 February 1948 aged 89 and was buried in Mont à l’Abbé Cemetery in St Helier two days later.

Mont à l’Abbé Cemetery is a vast cemetery in the capital of Jersey (and indeed the capital of all the Channel Islands). Thomas and Lily are buried together there (spoiler alert – Lily does die but not for a while …) in the Thatcher family plot. But that’s all for Part 2.

Thank you for reading. I promise to be back very soon with the next instalment …

The Church of the Most Holy Trinity, Dockhead, Bermondsey

Linda Swinburne
The Church of the Most Holy Trinity, Dockhead

The Church of the Most Holy Trinity is the Roman Catholic Parish Church of Dockhead.

Dockhead is an area situated just north of Jamaica Road in Bermondsey and runs east/west just south of Tower Bridge. Named to describe its geographical position at the “Head” of the London docks on the South side of the Thames, Dockhead was home to the Dockers, Stevedores and Lightermen who worked in the Docks up until their demise in the 1970s and 1980s and in terms of my family history, home to most of my Mother’s family during the nineteenth century and up until the Docks’ decline. I lived just off Jamaica Road not far from Tower Bridge when I was a child in the 1950s and my Dad and several of his brothers all worked in the London Docks.

The Docks were known as the ‘larder of London’. Everything came through these Docks, frozen meat, spices, tobacco, wool. All unloaded and distributed from the huge ships that came up the Thames up to Tower Bridge or stored in the vast network of Warehouses on both sides of the Thames. Three-quarters of the butter, cheese and canned meat needed for the capital was stored here.

The London Docks, south side of the Thames, looking West, upstream around 1940s

There has been a Roman Catholic Church on the site of the Most Holy Trinity Church since at least 1773 and it was the first church to be built fronting a public highway since the Reformation.

The Church of the Most Holy Trinity, Dockhead about 1907

Dockhead suffered terribly during the Blitz in WW2 due to its proximity to the Docks. Between 7 October 1940 and 6 June 1941, 126 high explosive bombs and 2 Parachute Mines were dropped on the area (https://www.bombsight.org) and in December 1940, the Church was destroyed in a bombing raid. Sadly, five years later, just before the end of the War on 2 March 1945, the Priests’ House was also bombed and three of the four Parish Priests were killed. The fourth was badly injured and rescued only with great difficulty. His rescuer, a milkman, received the George Cross. The adjoining Convent of the Sisters of Mercy was also damaged but with no loss of life. I can’t help thinking that my family must have known the Priests and were almost certainly members of the congregation.

The Church immediately after it was bombed

But the Church was eventually rebuilt and the present polychromatic brick building (first illustration above) was designed by H.S. Goodhart-Rendel and completed in 1959. The modern building was designated Grade II Listed but was upgraded to Grade II* in 2015.

The Church features heavily on my Maternal family tree. So far, I have found 12 marriages and 3 Baptisms at the Church from 1852 to 1931.

The furthest back of these is the first marriage of my 2 x great Grandmother, Hannah Lyons, who married a Michael Taylor there in 1852.

Hannah was born in Ireland in the early 1830s (not sure exactly when) and was living in England by the time of her marriage to a Michael Taylor in 1852.

It may have been that Hannah’s family came to England a s a result of what became known as “The Irish Potato Famine” between 1845 and 1852 when almost 2.2m people mostly from southern and western Ireland emigrated to England or America following the failure of the potato crop on which they depended, predominantly due the infection of potato crops by a blight that affected crops in other countries in Europe as well. Over 1m people starved to death in Ireland alone.

Hannah and Michael continued to live in Bermondsey and had three children. Johanna who was the mother of the Kalaher orphans who were the subject of an earlier blog post on here (see link below), John and Julia who was my great grandmother.

The Kalaher Orphans

Michael Taylor died in 1874 from Bronchitis (not unusual then in this damp area around the London Docks) aged 46.

Hannah remarried a couple of years later to a Thomas Sullivan but by 1891 Hannah is again a widow. Hannah’s two younger children, John and Julia, are still with her but by then Hannah’s other daughter, Johanna and her husband had both died leaving their children orphaned and Hannah has taken three of them to live with her.

On the 1901 census, Hannah is living with her youngest daughter Julia and Julia’s husband and she died just a few months later aged 65.

Both Hannah and Michael’s daughters, Johanna and Julia married at Holy Trinity (Julia giving birth to her first child just five days later) as did Julia’s daughter, also called Hannah (my grandmother) two of her other daughters and her son who were all my great Aunts and Uncles.

I can’t find any photos of my Grandmother and grandfather’s wedding (perhaps there weren’t any …) but here’s the little family they made including my lovely Mum, Marie and her sisters Hannah (this Hannah was baptised at Holy Trinity too) and Eileen plus Hannah’s husband enjoying a day at the beach I’m guessing in the late 1940s, perhaps early 1950s.

Thank you for reading this and I’m sorry I’ve been away so long ❤️

The Marriotts Part III

Linda Swinburne

So, by late September 1918 (just a few weeks before WW1 ended on 11 November) four of the ten children born to Elizabeth Louisa Whale and Sidney Randolph Robert Allies Marriott had been killed fighting in various countries around the World. One was 27, two were 23 and one 22. What a devastating loss and one that must have been difficult for all the family to bear but particularly Elizabeth and Sidney.

Elizabeth was already the only surviving child of William Whale and Elizabeth Rose. Elizabeth had had four sisters and a brother but all of them died either in infancy or as young adults. Elizabeth’s father had died aged just 40 leaving her and her Mother alone.

After her marriage to Sidney, children follow year on year almost and as I said in Part I, the Marriotts seem to live a fairly grand life in nice houses in what are now London Boroughs but in what would then have been leafy suburbia.

After WWI had finished, Elizabeth continued to live in Streatham, South West London until the time of Sidney’s death in 1924 when Sidney’s Last Will and Testament details that all his estate would be left to his wife Elizabeth.

When Elizabeth died, two years later in 1926 aged 73, she is living with her son Claude and his family in their house in Horsell in Surrey. A very grandly named “Cintra”.

But it is Sidney’s life after WWI which gives us more of an insight into the effect of the loss of their sons I think.

Sidney had obviously been a very capable and educated man. He had held a high ranking post in the Civil Service. He had a large and well provided for family.

Sidney Randolph Robert Allies Marriott

After he retired from Whitehall, it seems he held a reservist post as Quartermaster of the London Volunteer Regiment during WW1. The Quartermaster generally runs the Stores and Barracks for a Regiment and holds the rank of Captain or Major. Sidney is noted as such on his youngest child, Kenneth’s, Last Will and Testament in which Kenneth leaves his Estate to Sidney when Probate is granted in 1919.

Sidney died in 1924 aged 78. But when he died, his address is given as one in Herne Bay on the Kent coast and the place of his death is the Kent County Asylum in Chartham, Kent.

Sidney Robert Randolph Allies’ Death Certificate

Regrettably, none of the records for this institution survive so it is difficult to know what Sidney’s diagnosis might have been or when exactly he was admitted. But certainly I can guess. I suspect (and so will you I should think) that the loss of his four boys one after the other in the brutal fighting of the War was just too much to bear and Sidney needed to be cared for in a specialist facility where he finally died away from his family and most sadly, his wife of 46 years. How very sad and what a lesson about the toll that War takes on families. Not just the obvious needless loss of life but the enduring effects of loss and sadness.

Just before I go. A quick word about Sidney’s Father, Thomas Weatherley Marriott (1791 – 1857). Thomas was a Barrister. In 1823, a year before Thomas Cubitt struck his deal with Lord Grosvenor and began his famous work in Belgravia to set out and build Eaton Square, a tract of land that formed part of the Moreau family property further to the West was sold for development to a John Betts and Thomas Weatherley Marriott.

Betts and Marriott proceeded to design and develop a simple grid of streets and a square with a connection to Brompton Road. Hampered by a lack of access to Kensington Road, Thomas Marriott struck a deal a few years later with Lord Dungannon to buy land to the east which provided access to the neighbouring Trevor Place and upwards to the north. And thus, Montpelier Square was formed. Properties there today sell for £8m plus. A direct relative of the Marriotts (from Shirley Marriott’s line in Australia who has provided the photographs I’ve used on these blog posts) with whom I’ve been corresponding on Ancestry.com tells me that any money that Thomas had in order to buy this prime real estate in Knightsbridge dried up after the development. No fortunes to be handed down through the Marriott line it seems.

So that’s me done with the Marriotts. What a family. Such stories and sadness. Lives lived and lives lost. Of a whole family changed by WW1. I think the distraction in this case was well worth it.

As always, thank you for reading this post.

The Marriotts Part I

Linda Swinburne

Cards on the table from the start. I am not related to the Marriotts. They are a total distraction. But they are so, so interesting.

How is there at least a connection?

My 3 x paternal Great Grandfather, Herbert Ball, married twice. He is the Father of Herbert Cannon Ball, the subject of my Blog post last October (2020).

But my blood line runs through from Herbert and his first wife who died when she was fairly young. Herbert married again. this time to a much younger woman (sighs …).

Herbert’s second wife was called Mary Whale and she and Herbert went on to have another family. I was looking for Mary’s death when I lighted upon her siblings. One of whom was her brother, William Whale.

William and his wife, Elizabeth, are buried in Nunhead Cemetery in South London, one of London’s “Big Seven” Victorian cemeteries (the seven include Highgate which most people have heard of but not many have heard of Nunhead which is just as lovely).

William Whale had married an Elizabeth Rose. William and Elizabeth died in 1867 and 1880 respectively. The grave also contains three of their children who died young or in infancy from about 1857 to 1874. So far, so normal (sadly, at least for the mid 19th Century).

Weirdly though, there were two other burials in 1941 and 1943, some 60 years later, of apparently unconnected people also in the same grave.

The names of these people were Arthur Weatherley Trevanon Marriott and Madeleine Delano Marriott. Gosh I thought, what grand names. Who could these people be? And so started a 6 month distraction with people to whom I am entirely unrelated.

There is an official term for this behaviour. It is documented in a recent Newsletter of the Society of Genalogists. It is known as “Genealogical Attention Deficit Disorder”. Or the freedom to pursue whatever looks interesting. So here we go.

I started with William, to see if I could link the Marriott burials with him.

William Whale (1827 – 1867) was the publican of this pub, The Crown in Southwark from at least 1851 until his death in 1867. The photo below was taken in 1851, so William and his family may well be seen standing proudly outside.

The Crown, 31, Lant street, Southwark in 1851

William and Elizabeth had five children. Only one, Elizabeth Louisa Whale, survived beyond 16.

Elizabeth Louisa Whale was born in the pub in 1853. She lived with her family until she married in 1878.

Elizabeth’s marriage was to the very grandly named Sidney Randolph Ronald Allies Marriott who was a Clerk to the Admiralty. This turn of events is very unusual for a girl from Southwark in the mid 19th Century. Most married Labourers or Dock workers. But not for Elizabeth. A high ranking senior Civil Servant working in Whitehall no less.

But more importantly for this post. Aha. There it is. The connection to the name of the people buried with William Whale and Elizabeth Rose. Marriott. I was sucked in. Hope you are too.

Elizabeth and Sidney lived their life in very grand houses in Brixton or Streatham, both of which were wealthy, green and leafy suburbs of London in those times. They go on to have ten children. Yes, ten. None die in infancy. There are servants and Nurses. Elizabeth has her first child at 24 and her last at 44.

It is though, the children’s names that are quite extraordinary (there’s even a boy called Shirley …and Delano appears a couple of times. Delano was Sidney’s mother’s maiden name).

Arthur Weatherley Trevenon Marriott (1879 – 1943)

Madeleine Delano Marriott (1880 – 1941)

Claude Randolph Marriott (1882 – 1963)

Ethel Clara Marriott (1883 – 1982)

Kathleen Mabel Marriott (1884 – 1964)

Weatherley Sidney Mortimer Marriott (1887 – 1969)

Shirley Verdon William Marriott (1891 – 1918)

Roy Dudley Marriott (1893 – 1916)

Osborne Delano Marriott (1894 – 1917)

Kenneth Melbourne Hugh Marriott (1897 – 1918)

And here they are … at Claude’s wedding in 1908.

They’re a handsome bunch. And they look very well to do. Look at those hats the women are wearing. The height of Edwardian sophistication.

And it is the two eldest children, Arthur and Madeleine who were buried in the family grave in Nunhead with grandparents and Aunts they had never met.

But if you’re observant, you will have seen there was a cloud looming for not only for Britain but particularly the Marriotts whose four youngest children all died fighting in World War I.

I hope you can hang on for my next instalment about the Marriotts. coming very soon. If you “like” my Blog, you’ll get notified when the next post comes. Promise to be more regular with my stories than I have been recently.

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Herbert Cannon Ball (1832 – 1930)

Linda Swinburne

You can stop sniggering right now. This is my paternal great great grandfather I’ll have you know. Yes, obviously someone had a sense of humour. Presumably his parents. Worse still there are a couple of Cannon Balls (no middle names) on that side of my family too. So for Herbert, it could have been worse.

And he had to live with that name for a long time. As you will have worked out, he was 98 when he died. 98.

During that, almost a, century during which Herbert was alive, these are just some of the things that happened …

The United Kingdom passed the Great Reform Act, Slavery was abolished, The Poor Law brought into being Workhouses for “Paupers” in the the United Kingdom, Queen Victoria reigned for 64 years, Edward VII began and ended his reign and George V started his, Joseph Bazelget built London’s sewers, the “Little Ice Age” ends (hold that moment…), The British Empire begins, Abraham Lincoln is assassinated, The Russian Revolution happens, WW1 happens, The Easter uprising happens in Ireland, Adolf Hitler became Führer of the Nazi Party in Germany, powered flight is invented, the combustion engine is invented and Henry Ford manufactures his first car, The Titanic sunk, the Great Depression happened, electricity is invented, telephone communication …

I could go on. You get the picture.

And during it all, there is Herbert living his life in Borough in Bermondsey. Just on the south side of London Bridge by the mighty river Thames.

Herbert was born around 1832 to Herbert Ball and Rebecca Stuart. Herbert Senior was a Tailor and in 1841, he and Rebecca lived at 5, Borough Road, Borough, Bermondsey which is likely to be where Herbert Cannon was actually born.

When he was 8 or 9, Herbert Cannon was living at a private boarding school in Sutton in Surrey. Miles away from Bermondsey. He was the only child and his father probably quite well off so I wonder why he was sent away. The only solution I can find is that, in the middle of the 19th century, “the middling sorts” (those with a trade and aspiring to appear wealthy) started to send their children away for their education just to demonstrate they had the money to do so.

Herbert’s mother, Rebecca, died in 1846 aged just 40, without having had any more children and in 1848, Herbert senior married another woman 15 years his junior and had four more more children with her, one of whom was also called Herbert …

In 1851, Herbert Cannon was back living at 5, Borough Road aged 19, with his father and step mother (only 6 years younger than him) and he had also become a Tailor.

Herbert Cannon Ball married Emma Pickard in St George the Martyr Church in Borough High Street in 1856.

St George the Martyr Church, Borough High Street, Bermondsey, Mid 19th Century

The church is known as the “Little Dorrit church” as this is where Amy – Little Dorrit in Dickens’ book of the same name – was baptised and later took refuge in when her father was in the Marshalsea Debtors’ prison located next to the church in those days and there is a stained glass window in the church dedicated to the story.

“Little Dorrit” Window, St George the Martyr Church, Borough High Street, Bermondsey

Emma Pickard was from Clerkenwell, further east and north from Bermondsey (at that time Clerkenwell would have been a leafy suburb on the eastern side of London and within the boundaries of the County of Middlesex) and her father was a Milliner.

Herbert and Emma continued to live at 5, Borough Road and bring their family up there for the next 37 years until Emma died of heart disease aged 53 in 1888.

Herbert senior, meanwhile, had left for the East End of London, had given up being a tailor and was running pubs with his new young wife whose parents were also Licensed Victuallers (pub landlords), presumably leaving the house to his eldest son, Herbert Cannon.

Herbert Cannon and Emma had 6 sons between 1857 and 1867, all of whose names began with “H” – Herbert (of course), Hugh, Horace (my great Grandfather), Harold, Harry (Harold AND Harry must have led to confusion … just saying) and Heth.

Of these six sons, one was a Jeweller, one a Tailor like his father, one (my great grandfather) was a Builder’s Labourer, one an Insurance Clerk, one a Commercial Clerk and Buyer and one, Heth, died aged just 13 from Meningitis.

Finally in 1870, they had a (presumably much wanted) girl, who was named Rebecca after her maternal Grandmother.

Herbert Cannon continued to work as a Tailor all his life, at one stage, calling himself a “Master Tailor” and having apprentices living in his house which presumably was his shop and workshop too.

In 1872, Herbert Cannon is declared Bankrupt although he continues to live at 5, Borough Road albeit without the servants (including a children’s nurse) and apprentices he and Emma had previously.

Herbert Cannon Ball Bankruptcy Notice, 1872, The London Gazette

Following his wife’s death, Herbert is still living at 5, Borough Road in 1891 with only his daughter, Rebecca. But in 1897, Rebecca gets married (interestingly to a Thomas Wall so her name changes from Ball to Wall …) also at St George the Martyr Church where her parents had married 46 years before and in 1901 Herbert Cannon is living with Rebecca and her family in Croydon. Herbert is still a Tailor despite now being over 70.

Herbert Cannon died in February 1930 aged 98. The cause of death is given as old age and senile decay. Not terribly flattering but unsurprising. Herbert died in a nursing home in Croydon but his usual address is given as Rebecca and Thomas’s house so he had lived with them for 33 years.

Rebecca’s husband, Thomas Wall, was the informant for Herbert’s death and it is to Thomas that Herbert leaves his money when Probate was granted in March 1930. The estate totalled £175, worth about £5,700 today. It was by no means unusual for an estate to be left to a daughter’s husband and not the daughter herself in those days but if I was Rebecca I would have been a bit put out. My consolation would have been that at least it came to Rebecca and not any of her brothers who appear to have done nothing to help her look after their father. I suspect in this, Herbert Cannon was ahead of his time as the usual convention would have been to leave his money to his eldest son.

Four of Herbert Cannon’s sons survived him. Horace (my great grandfather) had died in 1920 and Heth, I have already said, died aged just 13. Herbert Cannon and Emma’s only daughter, Rebecca, outlived her husband, Thomas and all her brothers and didn’t die until 1960 staggeringly, by which time, she was 90.

5, Borough Road was occupied by another family on the 1901 and 1911 census returns but my family had lived there for almost 60 years and possibly before that. I’ve been there. It’s an NCP car park now and I cannot find any drawings or prints of the original house but I imagine it as a fairly grand multi story Georgian house with steps to the front, an imposing entrance hall and a roomy basement where Herbert Cannon conducted his business.

This pen and ink drawing from the mid 19th century shows a building called the British and Foreign Schools which was located in Borough Road. It looks like a genteel sort of place.

British and Foreign Schools, Borough Road, Bermondsey c. 1850

So that’s Herbert Cannon Ball. A life well lived I hope and with much seen, experienced and created.